It Hit Me Like a Ton of Bricks

Recently I read through a lesson on Human Development which covered Erik Erikson’s theory on the stages of psychological development. The summary chart is below.

 

Summary Chart

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Stage	Ages	Basic Conflict	Important Event	Summary
1. Oral-Sensory	Birth to 12 to 18 months	Trust vs. Mistrust	Feeding	The infant must form a first loving, trusting relationship with the caregiver, or develop a sense of mistrust.
2. Muscular-Anal	18 months to 3 years	Autonomy vs. Shame/Doubt	Toilet training	The child’s energies are directed toward the development of physical skills, including walking, grasping, and rectal sphincter control. The child learns control but may develop shame and doubt if not handled well.
3. Locomotor	3 to 6 years	Initiative vs. Guilt	Independence	The child continues to become more assertive and to take more initiative, but may be too forceful, leading to guilt feelings.
4. Latency	6 to 12 years	Industry vs. Inferiority	School	The child must deal with demands to learn new skills or risk a sense of inferiority, failure and incompetence.
5. Adolescence	12 to 18 years	Identity vs. Role Confusion	Peer relationships	The teenager must achieve a sense of identity in occupation, sex roles, politics, and religion.
6. Young Adulthood	19 to 40 years	Intimacy vs. Isolation	Love relationships	The young adult must develop intimate relationships or suffer feelings of isolation.
7. Middle Adulthood	40 to 65 years	Generativity vs. Stagnation	Parenting	Each adult must find some way to satisfy and support the next generation.
8. Maturity	65 to death	Ego Integrity vs. Despair	Reflection on and acceptance of one’s life	The culmination is a sense of oneself as one is and of feeling fulfilled.

 

While studying this chart it suddenly hit me:  I’m a gnat’s ass away from Middle Age!!

WHAT!!

Where did it go?  I don’t feel middle aged.  I thought middle age people were responsible adults or something.  I’m still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.

Friday Flashback

In honor of the King Tut exhibit opening this weekend, I present to you….

 

 

Steve Martin

Alright, confession time.  How many of you did the King Tut dance growing up? (my hand is raised)